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Ring! Ring!! RING!!
I
just got a message! J I wonder what it is!?
Message:___I’m
sorry but were not working out, were done___
What
do u mean you’re breaking up with me !? What did I do wrong?
Do u think it’s suitable to break up with someone via text
message?
In my own opinion I don’t believe it is appropriate, no
matter the reason behind your planned breakup, to do it via text message. From
my personal experience, being broken up via text message made me feel that I
wasn’t even worthy enough to be broken up with face to face with. It always
seems to leave the person being broken up with hanging with questions about why
or what I did wrong. The one on one brake up is easier emotionally to handle for
almost most individuals, because you can express your feelings and have
“closure” with that significant other.
I would choose, if given or the problem arose, to break up
via face to face. I do suppose if the person you are trying to break up with
knows you are planning to or try to break up with them and is avoiding your
“meetings” or calls; then I could see a text message may be the only way. Since
the average person will tend to open and read a message just out of a helpless
curiosity of what the message says, they will almost always get the message.
Another possibility could be in my opinion is if the other person did something
terribly wrong. For instance, cheating or having a big lie (having another
family or kids).
I agree with you!! I also love how you started off your post as a conversation!
ReplyDeleteI agree with you. I think it is rude for a person to break up with someone over a text. I think that you should respect the person by having a face to face conversation.
ReplyDeleteI triple agree with you and your thoughts. I think whoever is going to break up with you should have the guts to talk face to face if they want to break up with you. One more thing, why do they have the guts to ask you out in the first place?
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